As some of you might know I spent the summer working for an organisation called Simply Smiles. I have yet to write my own overview of my summer there, but I thought I would extend this piece, written by my coworker and boss, to all of you. So here it is, please enjoy!
Not long ago, the Founder and President of Simply Smiles, Bryan Nurnberger, posted a moving account of his summer on the Cheyenne River Sioux Tribe Reservation. In it, he discussed the challenges of developing trusting relationships and effective programs in the absence of cohesive community. The heart of his conclusion was vintage Bryan: We will continue to work with our new friends on the Reservation despite the persistence of suspicion and a sometimes terrifying lack of hope. “The need trumps the obstacles,” as he says. My experiences as the Simply Smiles team leader in Mexico this summer were in many ways opposite from Bryan’s, but as with the Reservation, the importance of communityemerged as the dominant theme of our eight weeks in Oaxaca.
Our work with marginalized communities in southern Mexico certainly involves improving the lives of our friends there physically. We bring food to those suffering from malnutrition and to those at risk of starvation. We rebuild and repair schools. In the past, we’ve built houses and transformed a children’s home.
However, beneath and within all this practical help is an essential reality: trusting relationships and compassionate connections. This summer, in addition to refining and improving upon last year’s program, we did our best to deepen and strengthen the friendships that Bryan and many others developed in 2009 and 2010. This meant not just buying groceries but working side by side with the women of Santa Maria Tepexipana (including Lula, Christobalina, Matea, Angelina and others) as they prepared the weekly community meals. It meant holding Movie Night every Thursday and inviting not just children but people of all ages. It meant stopping into people’s homes to chat as we walked by on our way to the storage shed. It meant welcoming children into our campsite and playing cards and laughing for hours.
Those who expressed gratitude to us consistently emphasized their appreciation of ourfriendship over our material help. Personally, I believe this is because friendship is something that they can and do give to us as much as we give it to them. In any situation where the “haves” are giving to the “have nots,” there is a fundamental and uncomfortable lack of parity. But friendship levels the field. For this reason, we went deeper into this jungle this summer, holding a community meal in the mountaintop village of La Cienega, walking an hour-plus uphill in order to send a signal to them and to others: We will make the effort to come to you. We want to know where you live and to share life with you.
Each of our staff members and interns also recognizes that we could have done nothing of substance in Oaxaca City and in the jungle without the help of the local residents. Carol and Francisco welcomed us to Casa Hogar each Sunday afternoon. At the dump, Edith, Luciano, and Soledad allowed us into their homes, took us on tours, and embraced us with brilliant smiles. Each community meal in Santa Maria required at least 10 hours of preparation and hundreds of fresh tortillas. We needed a local mason (Javier) to help us make improvements to village schools. Even the people at the places we stopped on our long drive to the jungle each week became our good friends. They opened their hearts and homes to us and we know that we can rely on them in an emergency.
Yes, the food is making a difference in the jungle. The people who attend our community meals and come to our food distributions are unmistakably healthier. That is something to celebrate! And the unexpected feedback we received from some of the adults and older children – that the people of Santa Maria are closer to one another and treat their children better since we’ve come into their lives — is extremely gratifying.
However, all is not wonderful. Social injustices abound. Crimes go unpunished. Our friends at the dump still live and work in an alarmingly unsafe environment. The people in the Santa Maria region still lack anything close to decent health care (Can you imagine being a parent and not having a place to bring your sick child?). The political and economic decks remain stacked against the coffee farmers and their families and workers.
Simply Smiles has plans to help our friends address these issues, but we need your active support. Will you help us by coming to Oaxaca in 2012 and, if you feel moved to do so, by making a donation or becoming an I’m Dedicated donor? Please contact Bryan or me or visit our website if you want to be a part of this amazing life we are living – a life of deepening connections and emerging hope.
Thank you so much to our staff, interns, volunteers, and donors for creating thousands of smiles and for making Summer 2011 a success!


















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