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Mathew’s Journal – (16.5.10) – Simply Smiles (Part 2)

Heeeeelllloooo SuperForest!

Like I promised I am here for my next journey into the wonderful realm of Simply Smiles.  I am sorry it is rather late, it has been a long day.  And as SuperForester Heather said, I just couldn’t make time.

For the first instalment: click here!

When I got back from Mexico the first time I felt changed.  And understandably.  More than that, I felt excited!  Ready to help and make a change.  But what plague me was how.  Bryan had told us before leaving that our journey was just beginning.  We were now beginning our part as ambassadors of Simply Smiles; witnesses of what we had all lived and experienced together.  Our responsibility was to share this with all (much like SuperForest thrives and strives to do).  At the time I didn’t know how.  I shared it with my friends and family.  I struggled living back in the western civilisation.  I help present our trip to the whole school.  I started to plan a concert fund-raiser with Kristen that sadly fell through because of many factors (but the drive for doing this is still very alive in my heart, and one day shall become reality).  Time went on and I tried as much as possible to share my experience with all I met along the path, but still it all felt inadequate.  So, of course when our second trip was announced I was one of the first to jump on board.  I was so excited for this!  Bryan had talked about a new project while we were in Mexico the first time, and now that project was on going.  Our group was going to be the first youth group to head down for this project.  We were all very excited.

March of 2010 we left for Oaxaca, Mexico yet again.  We had new faces and some old, but the feeling was the same.  Except this time I knew the faces of Alejandro, Olé, Tino, and all the other kids at Casa Hogar would be greeting me soon! I kept my promise to all of them when I had left last year.  I told them, “Uno años,” or one year.  And now I was back!

This time we weren’t staying at Casa Hogar, but at the under construction Simply Smiles Headquarters where we would be helping bringing it up to functionality.  Here are some pictures of the HQ:

Freshly painted building

Our tents at HQ

A fresh in progress tiling job

But we also spent plenty of time with the kids!!

Hanging at Casa Hogar

The first few days of the trip were spent in Oaxaca, Oaxaca.  We had to depart from Casa Hogar once again.  But I left with the same promise I did last year, “Uno años.”  We then packed up and headed out for the next leg of our adventure, and the next project.  We took a whole day driving across the state of Oaxaca to our new location.  The ride their was spectacular!

Some spectacular views

We soon arrived in the middle of the jungle ready for our next task.  We had a few days to move 12 tons of food from storage to our camp site, and then repackage it to make it ready for 2,500 people.  This was the new project, also known as “The Village Project.”  Again here is some background.  Simply Smiles teamed up with a great name guy Juan.  He was working at Casa Hogar, after living their as an orphan, but now is fully fledged employee of Simply Smiles.  And about a year or so ago Bryan asked Juan where people really needed help.  He told Bryan it was at his home.  The people there hadn’t seen modern medicine, a white person, and much more we all take for granted.  Bryan was the first white guy many of the village, and surrounding villages had seen.  The village we are located in is far from the main city, almost near the cost.  Here’s a map:

We are towards the south end, close to the Pacific

The village we stayed in had around 30 people.  The mountains around us had many micro communities of families trying to scrape a living.  It was our job to give them the basic nutrition to simply survive.  There is no other way to put except, before Simply Smiles came along these human beings were starving to death.  But as always it started with becoming friends, and with the amount of mistrust these people have with white people (because some time ago or so some came and kidnapped their children) it has been a difficult task.  Juan and his family have been beyond helpful!  The next bit I will show to you all in pictures and video, because I know my words will fail me.  First, I will show you Bryan’s own introduction to the project, he describes better that I ever could.

Before I begin, however, I should mention that since we are working under the Simply Smiles philosophy this day wasn’t just us handing out food.  It was a day of celebration.  It is known as “La Fiesta,” the party!  We play with the kids, share food, and talk all while also handing out our monthly supply of much needed food.

our camp, about to hold our expected 2,500 people

Moving the food to camp. Items included: rice, beans, oil, candy, soap, sugar

Getting ready for the Fiesta!

Taking a much needed break with the locals!

All food ready to go, phew! Now the real party begins

Everyone waiting to get in and get their monthly package

The most important part of the day, having fun! We did face paints, played tag, broke bread, and more!

A bird's-eye view of the day

People walked over a days journey to get this food, so they could survive. We received 2,963 people that day.  Way more than we had thought.  We were devastated by the number.  Each month it had been increasing and we were hoping it would slow down, it did the opposite.  Bryan had said the night before, “I hope there isn’t more than 2,500, not because we don’t have the food, but because I would be devastated by that number increasing.”  We ended up having to face the dilemma of running out of food.  Beans ran short, but every family was fed in the end.  The last thing we ever wanted to do, as it would have broken all of our hearts, was turn a family around and say sorry.  Fortunately that hasn’t happened.

Some of you may be asking yourselves how Simply Smiles plans to keep doing this every month.  That isn’t the plan.  Long term goals are set to reintroduce the coffee industry in the area through Simply Smiles Coffee!  This is an effort to bring back self-sustainability for these people. Perhaps one day permaculture will take its grips there too!

For more info on “The Village Project” click here.

If you remember Kristen’s song, Keep Hope, from my first Sunday Sunshine post, then you might remember the story she told about the girl with no name.  That story is true, and it came from this gathering.  There is a girl with no name who comes with her family to get their monthly food.  Her family loves her dearly, but when she was born they were so worried by just keeping her alive they didn’t name her.  She is now known as No Name, as no other name would stick.  She is a beautiful girl, with vast amounts of potential, if only she was given the chance.  That is what Simply Smiles is trying to do.  Give a chance, a hope, a life.  Many of the children Simply Smiles works with have the same dreams all children have.  They want to be doctors, policeman, fireman, and even lawyers.  But what hope have they if the can’t leave a dump, or if they can’t even eat a daily meal?  Simply Smiles gives them that chance.  Currently one student is studying in the U.S. now and two others are studying in Mexico City!

That is the power that Bryan is creating for these peoples.  He and the Simply Smiles organisation are creating hope for brighter futures.  We all at SuperForest commend you!

Please lend out a SuperForest helping hand to Simply Smiles by visiting their website, here!

And for their facebook page, go here!

I am sure there is much I am missing, so please do go visit their website to learn more on what they are doing.  Change is always in the air for Simply Smiles, as it always is for SuperForest.  I promise you will all feel at home.  There is much more to come from Simply Smiles!  Stay tuned for more news about Simply Smiles right here on SuperForest!  And as SuperForester Kristen will tell you…

SIMPLY SMILE!

Have a great week everyone,
SuperForester Mathew

Mathew’s Journal – (15.5.10) – Simply Smiles (Part 1)

Gooooooood Morning SuperForest!

Back in March I told Sun Shines On that I was going on a trip to Mexico with an organisation called Simply Smiles.  I then wrote I would tell them all about this trip, unfortunately I did not.  First, I couldn’t bring myself to divulge my experience, keeping it close to my heart.  Then life happened, and I just haven’t gotten around to it.  So today I am going to beginning sharing my whole Simply Smiles story with SuperForest, including my most recent adventures.  Today I will start with my first trip back in 2009.  Tune in tomorrow for my second trip.

The fall of 2008 I was introduced to Simply Smiles by one of my teachers and told him I would love to go along on a school trip.  It was the first one my school would be doing.  We left in March of 2009 for Oaxaca, Mexico.

Oaxaca, Oaxaca, Mexico

Arriving at a tiny little airport we waited for our luggage in anticipation for the unknown.  Bryan Nurnberger, founder & president of Simply Smiles, greeted us outside to take us off to Casa Hogar the orphanage we would be spending out time at.  Casa Hogar, at the time (as Simply Smiles have opened some more now), was the only orphanage in the state of Oaxaca that supported children with disabilities.

Our mission at Casa Hogar was best described by “Simply Smiles.”  We were there to be friends, to play, to laugh, and to smile! We also did a few things to help out around the orphanage such as: painting the playground, cleaning some buildings, and cooking.  But that was just some extra stuff.  The real pleasure and enjoyment at Casa Hogar was being with the children, who would soon become our new brothers and sisters.  I’ll show some pictures of our time at Casa Hogar.

Playing Futbol

Playing Music

Dazzling in technology's awesomeness

Drawing

Giving rides!

Giving LoVE

The feelings of love and comradeship felt with everyone at Casa Hogar is indescribable.  We became family.  The older guys, Olé, Tino, Juan, Jorge, and others became our “amors,” or loves.  It was our way of saying we were brothers.  That little fella in the picture above is Alejandro.  We became closer in those few days than I have with any other human being.  We become brothers and we became father and son at the same time.  He was mine and I was his.  In many ways he taught me how to love a human being purely and openly.  I miss him everyday I am without him in my arms.

We spent much of our afternoons and evenings at Casa Hogar, but our mornings  were spent making breakfast, and then heading out to our work site.  This requires some background info.  The city of Oaxaca has a large dump where all garbage in the city is taken to.  It is a large mountain of trash.  And on the this mountain there are people scouring through the trash for anything valuable.  This is their daily living.  These are full families ranging from child to grandma, totalling 128 people, struggling to survive.  The trash is their only source of income, making “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure” a more truthful saying than many of us can even realise.  Their homes were made of metal sheets that they had found.  Their yards were seeming littered with trash, but were in fact all organised in specific groups: cans, plastic bottles, glass bottles, metal sheets, other things that just seemed like “junk,” but were quite valuable.  They were then dependent on collectors of this valuable trash to come pick it up.  They would come on irregular schedules, making it impossible for families to know when to expect any pay.  I didn’t even mention yet that these human beings were picking trash barehanded, and many barefooted.  The garbage trucks would just come dump their trash with complete disregard for the people, increasing the chance of being hit by truck or falling trash.  Not to mention the packs of wild dogs and circling vultures waiting for food.  Oh and the smell!

The dump, but hardly all of it

Homes at the dump

Packs of dogs at the dump

via simplysmiles.org

This is Jorge, age 11, picking through the trash for his survival.

Phew!  I am sorry I had to whip that all out, but it is necessary to see the truth before we can start to make a change.  That is all of what Bryan and Kristen (the same mentioned in one of my posts and husband of Bryan) first witnessed when they visited the dump.  They knew something had to change.  This is where Simply Smiles philosophy was really born.  The philosophy goes something along these lines:

We are all human beings, and such we should treat all with the same love and respect.  The difference is our fortune.  Those of us born fortunate should help those less so, but begin with friendship.

Bryan and Kristen first got to know the people at the dump, they befriended them.  They were not just some westerners.  They were Bryan and Kristen, those lovely and friendly couple gringos.  They dined with the families, they spent days with them at the dump, and more.  Until once a real bond was established they offered to help their friends in need.  This is how the housing project began.  Bryan describes it on the website as:

They Call The Dump Home…

There are 28 families surviving off of what the garbage dump in Oaxaca, Mexico can provide. They survive in an environment that can only be described as “Hell on Earth”.

These families, 128 men, women, and children make up a closely knit community of people that many consider to be modern day untouchables.

It is the mission of Simply Smiles to bring this justice to light and to provide all that these human beings need and deserve.

Our group was to build one of these houses, and with the help of three master masons we did.  We also helped paint one of the other completed houses.

Bryan with the house we helped build

This project is now complete!  All 28 families have a home to live in.  The city of Oaxaca has now recognised this community and has installed electricity into the homes.  Their lives have been drastically changed for good!  Their children now have hope to pursue their dreams.  This is what Bryan had to say on the finish of the project:

New Homes For Everyone!

Houses View Check

Everyone who WAS living in homes made of trash, now has a new home! This is a panoramic view of many of the houses built by Simply Smiles volunteers.

Imagine living with your family in a house made of items you scavenged from a garbage dump. Your home is made of bed springs, or metal drums, or at best some sheet metal scraps.

Imagine working all day in unspeakable filth and smell and coming home to a place where you don’t even have a place to wash your hands.

You lay your new-born baby down to sleep in a plastic bin you found.

This was reality for 28 families.

Today, all 28 families have brand new homes.

YES!  Amazing!  And just because this project is over doesn’t mean the relationships built over time our gone.  Bryan and Simply Smiles volunteer groups often go back to the dump to see our friends, to see how they are doing.  The progress is amazing!  It was truly an honour to have been part of that project, to share my humanity with others.  It was true sharing of humanity, love, and peace.

The hardest part about this trip wasn’t the shock effect of seeing the living conditions of fellow human beings, but, selfishly, saying goodbye to my new friends from Casa Hogar.  For all on the trip this is true, I believe.  We were all in tears, but what kept me going was knowing I would be back in only one year.

I can only hope you can feel a slimmer of what I experienced by reading this.  I will never be able to fully express all the feelings in words, but perhaps one day you will be able to experience it by going on a trip with Simply Smiles!  Simply Smiles, Bryan, Kristen, and all involved are near and dear to my heart.  Snuggled right next to SuperForest in fact.

I will tell all of you about the next year tomorrow.  It is a new project, and a much harder topic for me to talk about.  But I will try my best.

If you are interested in learning more about Simply Smiles, and their other projects please check them out!  Click here!

I will see all of you tomorrow for Sunday Sunshine and my next instalment!

Love to you all,

Mathew



Sunday Sunshine – April 18, 2010 (The First!!!)

Gooooddd Morrnnninnggg SuperForest!!!

Happy Sunday!  This right here, right now, is the first Sunday Sunshine post.  Each Sunday I will be posting beautiful pictures of sunshine with songs about sunshine, poems, writings, drawings, anything related to the sun shining!  This I humbly steal from my own blog, The Sun Shines On.  At least in idea and theme.  It is my way of bringing all of me over to SuperForest! YAY!

I will let you all know now that I will be looking for YOUR pictures, songs, etc. that have to do with sunshine.  The ones I absolutely LOVE (which will be every one I get) I will be posting up here as well!  Wake up early and snap a sunrise, or surf the web and find a sweet picture, or paint a drawing of the sun, scan it, and send it in, or anything else!  I want creativity!!

Send all your stuff to mharreld1991{at}gmail{dot}com!  Please do!!

Now enough words, I kindly present the first Sunday Sunshine:

Hope! Hope for an exciting new week! Hope for that job interview! Hope for that new friend! Hope for your future! Hope for your love! Hope for hope! Hope for a peaceful world! Hope for fill in the blank here !  And with this picture inspiring hope, I would like to introduce to you one of my dearest and sincerest friends, Kristen Graves.  A very talented musician, currently working on her next album.  If you can guess what inspired it, high five to you! YES! It is hope!  HIGH FIVE!  We are going to be hearing a lot more from Kristen in the future so stay tuned!  Check out her website and download the song below for free!  YAY!

Here is her single – “Keep Hope Alive”!!!!

Keep Hope

May the sun keep shining on!

Have a great week everyone,

Mathew